爱情的VISA卡-Love of international Students (Quoted)

在德国念书的好朋友打电话来,说因为熬不过时间和距离,刚刚在起飞之前和女朋友分手了

想珍惜而不敢争取的爱情也是我们的必修学分和签证申请材料之一吗?



看这篇文章的留学生们，

你是在美国，英国，加拿大，澳洲，德国，法国，西班牙，新加坡，还是瑞士？

你的partner在哪里

隔的是太平洋还是大西洋,或者整整一块欧亚大陆?

我们的距离，不是几个小时的飞机,火车，长途汽车可以解决的



是半年回一次国才可以见到他/她吗?甚至一年?

或者在欧洲的这一个,等着在北美/澳洲的那一个,凑着两个人的假期,盼圣诞,盼暑假

一次次的跑中介,跑使馆,确认自己的护照VISA怎样去那个国家,

提前一年,半年定好机票,然后兴奋的算着天数，

一有时间就会对相见的那几天充满各式的想象，

购物的时候会想着穿这条裙子见他应该不错吧，

喝酒的时候会想到少点一杯，让她不要对我的啤酒肚失望，

吃着经济舱没味道的PASTA,脚申不直的坐8个小时,

想方设法空出那些天的时间，检查好车况，定住的地方，设计旅行的路线，

然后守着相机里的照片和几件纪念品又过半年，一年。



这一年，半年里，每次有小吵，小闹，又会忐忑的害怕几个月后的机票带来的是一场单人旅行，这样的状况又是非常真切的发生在我们的身上

有的人会退票,有的还是会义无反顾的飞过去





在浦东国际机场，在北京T3，在香港, 

丢过护照，遗失过行李的我们，最怕的还是登机的最初那个安检通道，转身say bye以后，又是几百天只能对着电脑的想念。



手机，电脑，PSP，TOUCH，一切能设置桌面的东西，可能都是那一位的照片，

在SHARE ROOM熬夜写论文的时候看

在去学校的火车上看

在打工间隙偷偷从制服口袋里掏出来看看

QQ,MSN,SKYPE变得更加意义非凡，签手机最看重的是国际话费的套餐



大片首映的时候他/她是和别人一起看,哪怕你在NYU念导演,又能怎样

他/她发烧的时候,肚子痛的时候,鼻子堵的时候,头晕的时候,哪怕你念的是UW医科PhD也会感觉无能为力

情人节的时候,他/她生日的时候,哪怕你是在瑞士或者澳洲念最好的酒店管理,一张小桌子,一支蜡烛几朵花几盘菜的服务,也提供不了.



这种比例尺动辄就是1比N个0的距离,让你见识了几次分手了?

飞LONDONG的飞机上整整哭完那十几个小时,

飞CHICAGO的飞机上一篇一篇重读再撕掉几年的日记

飞Melbourne的飞机上要杯酒,一点一点往自己前一天才纹的那个人的名字上面抹

飞BNE的飞机上听了整整8个小时的《转机》

......

这些,都是我和我散落世界的朋友经历的,

好吧,地球是圆的,距离哪里是问题

这三年四年以后,他/她,陪过我们走完这段没工作没股票没车没房没社会经验的海白菜时代,然后呢?

是让他/她继续等你一年两年MASTER吗?

是想留下来移民吗?告诉他/她你不回去了,

是一定要回老爸的公司不能和她呆在国外了吗

或者你要留澳,她/他要留美之类的.

在或者,她被身边意气风发,体贴入微的一个优秀同学拐走了

又能说什么呢?

该牵她过马路的时候,该帮他准备早餐的时候

该为她撑伞的时候,该照顾他喝酒的时候





我们没得选的错过了太多时候

如果还有人一直陪着,在坚守这份感情,那那位海白菜该是多好的运气啊

出国以后,看到LV,GUCCI,DIOR变便宜了,但是于青春时代本该信手拈来的爱情追求却贵得不是我们省吃俭用打工存钱可以负担的.

身边来来往往各种肤色各种面具的人,家族企业,父母期望,自己的事业,拿身份......

于留学生,爱情刷卡的时候,我们只能选credit,不能选saving的.



我们经历过一个人的生活训练，寂寞孤独的心理磨砺，世界的视野，一流的学校，我们很好了吗？至少对于那个还愿意不计时间空间和我们在一起的那个人，我们不够的还好多。好好珍惜，哪怕在他/她离开之前,少给点伤害

不要SUPERMAN，BATMAN，SPIDERMAN那样让每个人都爱，都崇拜，都需要，有那么多超能力，拯救世界

我只想变成JUMMPER，在景区关门的时候，为你打开一扇门，让你游览你喜欢的罗马。 

There is one thing i will never stop doing

Something i found when i was cleaning up my laptop. I don't even remember having this. But since i found it, i will put it up.  However, if they were monkey, they are big intelligent monkeys. And yes, the sad truth of is that they want the whole nation to be like them and trust that 1Malaysia does exist. Ass..What a truth..

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Appreciate

Why not you stay in Hong Kong for another year?

Yes, this is what my dad told me on the phone just now. Typical him , giving me lots of freedoms since young. I am free to choose anything i want as long as they do not contradict too much from his beliefs.

I know what you meant, and i fully appreciate your given choice. I love Asia, fast pace as opposed to slow and layback westerns. But at that moment, i promised to finish my at least a degree from Australia.

Thanks for your freedom daddy.

Anyway,
Lan Kwai Fong now...

Happy Halloween friends...

Ciao~

UMNO on MCA Gerakan

Dont really get it. Why must parties' issues be debated during parliamentary session.
Low class.
Who cares about you parties..Start thinking for people.

and notice how many empty chairs were there

Once again..Ethics

I have been questioning myself again and again, trying to figure out the real definition of ethics.

Then, i saw this quote today;

Notice that "I" is at the center of the word "ethical." There is no "they." Achieving the ethics of excellence is our individual assignment.

~ Price Pritchet

somehow i doubt it. is it real that ethic is only individual assignment and that they are exclusive of others? I thought others' actions will directly or indirectly influence the way we act, at least to some extent.

Think of the story mentioned in my previous blog about a druggist and a hushband of a dying lady. It was unethical and immoral for the man to break into druggist's store to obtain the drug his wife needed.

However, did the druggist do the right things in the 1st place? If he was ethical enough, as a medical practitioner, he should have saved the man's wife but not merely wanted to earn higher profits by denying the man from the specific drug.

I am not saying that it is correct for the man to break into the druggist's store, but the point is ethic is not merely an individual assignment, it does to some extent affected by others' choice of acts.